Thursday, April 24, 2008

Loss of a child

Child birth is an incredible event. It is touching on so many levels. After taking care of child for 9 months inside you, a woman has few more years of constant care and attention that go into raising a child. It is such a special relationship and an unconditional love beyond comprehension for most people. My Aunt lost her 3 year old baby in a water accident, one that could not have been controlled by any yet haunts everyone. Her first child was lost in an accident that left her stunned. I can barely deal with the thought of losing anyone close to me in my life. How is a mother to deal with losing a child that she bore for 9 months, that she cared for and loved every day of its existence, that is her flesh & blood, literally a part of her.

I pray for anyone that has EVER had to go through such situations. I wish it upon no one and if someone does have to deal with it I hope they can learn to not blame themselves and keep the memories of the lost child in their hearts forever. My aunt was scarred, she blamed herself for the longest time even though she knows there is nothing she could have done. She went into depression and was so angry with herself that she was not able to focus on her other child or husband. It is a tough situation to deal with and a very sensitive one at that. I hope people in such situations can gain strength and learn to move on with support from their loved ones. Accidents, as unfortunate as they maybe, happen. Its not under anyone's control. I just hope people can learn to move past them instead of letting them damage their lives further.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Domestic Violence

I'd like to pray today for the victims of domestic violence. In today's world, where opportunities are unlimited and freedom is everyone's right, I can't imagine why anyone should have to suffer through physical and mental abuse by their spouses. Nearly 25 percent of American women report being raped and/or physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or date at some time in their lifetime, according to the National Violence Against Women Survey, conducted from November 1995 to May 1996. I've seen reports that indicate almost 70% of Indian women experience some form of domestic violence. These numbers are incredible and you can only imagine the state of fear, insecurity and depression these women must live under. I pray that they can find the courage and support needed to stand up against their abusers and move on to a life they deserve of peace and happiness.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Breast Cancer

I cannot even imagine how traumatizing it must be for a woman to go through an experience that truly challenges your inner strength and self confidence. A family member of mine went through it and it was a very trying period for her. From the physical weakness to emotional trauma it is a rollercoaster ride that doesn't end for several years, the impact of which lasts a lifetime. I pray for all those women who have been unfortunate enough to live through this tragic plight. Please know that you are still beautiful, the strength with which you overcome this stressful time is incredibly beautiful.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Orphans

I love my parents tremendously. I can't imagine life without them. There have been some really trying times in my life and I could not have gotten through those if it wasn't for my wonderful parents. No matter how I treat them, they always treat me with love. No matter how lost I feel, they always have the answers for me. They always look out for my best interest and definitely always put my needs ahead of their own. They have been the best guides through my life and most of all the unconditional love I get from them is unlike any other. For those kids in the world that have not known what its like to have parents, that have had be their own guides and have raised themselves, I pray that you find the strength and proper guidance you need throughout life. I hope you make the most of what life brings your way and that you find unconditional love in some other shape or form.

Monday, April 14, 2008

My first prayer

I would like to dedicate my first prayer to those women in the world that have to use their bodies to make a living (by choice or not). I hope God gives them peace and helps them through these tough times in their lives.